In the war against bullies it is clear where the front is: at school. That's where the vast majority of bullying occurs according to bullying statistics and is also where actions against bullying can have the greatest impact. But what steps should a parent take that wants to help their child deal with bullying?
If you fear for your child's well being while they are at school then you are not alone. Recent bullying statistics show that thirty-two percent of parents fear for their child's physical safety when the child is at school. Thirty-nine percent of parents with a child in grade six or higher are more likely to say they fear for their child's safety. Twenty-two percent of parents whose children are in grade five or lower fear for their child's safety. With all this fear what can a responsible parent do in order to equip their child with the tools to fight bullying?
The best thing a parent can do to prepare their kid for bullying is to explain the mindset of the bully. Explain how recent bullying statistics show that most bullies come from homes with out affection and harsh disciplinary actions. Mention that bullies often suffer from low self esteem which results in making other people for worse to lift themselves up. Once this is explained it will empower your child and will raise his self esteem so bullying effects him little.
Parents can often feel helpless against the threat that their children face at school. But taking initiative and explaining the mindset behind bullying will result in greater understanding of bullies which can cause your child to be unaffected by them entirely.
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